Dating other married
He is not a very romantic person — more of the sardonic, raised-eyebrow type, which is why he is my best friend and I'm glad I married him.
Person-with-whom-I-sleep-with-and-share-common-interests. "I like lover; it's very French." My husband mimes gagging behind his coffee cup, but I ignore him.
Between financial stressors, raising kids, and working like crazy, we weren't having much fun.These are marriages that "make- do" after the scar tissue has healed.But frankly, that isn't the way it's done in my polyamorous community, or my open marriage. For me, sex with someone else is not a deal breaker. But having some openness is one of many ingredients that keep the erotic life active in our marriage.Here's your answer: he’d just had sex — with another woman. There’s actually a word for the joyful feeling that a polyamorous person has when his or her lover or spouse walks through the door after making love to another lover: it's called compersion.Compersion is such a novel concept that you won’t even find the word in the dictionary (unless you look in the Urban dictionary).